The Joy of Moving
Posted on Feb 1st, 2009
by
Sandra
This started off as a thread in Diving Deeper: A Writing Workshop. I wanted to get rid of that horrible January blog (not that the blog was horrible, but January wasn't a highlight of my life), so I thought I'd expand a bit on the thread.
We have just moved. Again. We have moved more or less exactly every 6 months for the past 2 years. These were not just house/apartment moves, but COUNTRY moves. For the 5 years prior to that, we lived out of suitcases, moving all the time. For the +- 13 years before that I lived in about 5 different places, but all in one city, Toronto. Before that, well, from time of birth I lived in too many places and too many countries to begin bothering to tell you about.
Suffice to say, it's a LOT. And for no specific reason other than the haphazard nature of life. So I can't blame my job, my husband's job or my parent's jobs. Just life. Things working out. Things not working out. Invitations. Dis-invitations. Spur of the moment decisions. Other people's spur of the moment decisions.
Now, I rather like being on the road. The time I've spent living out of a suitcase I don't regret. But as soon as furniture or large unwieldy objects come into the picture...ak.
We have moved into a very large house. The largest house I've ever lived in. It must be upwards of 250 square metres. This is partly because it has a full attic, which serves as one enormous room. But there are four bedrooms downstairs and two bathrooms. And just two of us.
We just moved from a 49 square metre cottage. The difference is VAST.
I can turn around in the bathroom! I don't hit my elbow on the wall! I have a choice of more than three places to sit !(before it was: bed or kitchen table or office). I can do my stretches and not have husband step over me trying to get to the other side of the room (house). We can cook together! We can invite people over! We can get lost! I'm getting fit just walking around.
There are some problems, of course there are. We are renting half-furnished. See below.
But... these are views from outside my office and our bedroom window ( apologies for the photos, I took them with my computer)
Behind the pond is a rushing gurgling river, which you can hear all the time...
This is just a small corner of the living room... those armchairs come with a sofa the size of my previous office. They are also SO ugly, but strangely comfortable.
I don't know how long we'll be here, but we don't have any plans to move in the near future or even the far distant future. I do sometimes wonder what I'm doing in a cold northern semi functioning (in some ways) country, but I simply don't have the energy to consider a different plan. We tried hot and beautiful (south of France) and that didn't work. So. Maybe actually being in a house that we like will help.
We are even going to get our stuff from Toronto shipped. A whole apartment of stuff that's been in storage for over 7 years. I will have outgrown my clothes (or out coloured them or something), we will be able to replace some of the hideousness, and have some of our favourite things about us, like our VITAMIX :-)
That's planned for later this year, in the meantime we have SPACE. if not SUN. For HOT, I need to follow in my brother's footsteps and go to Brazil. Why he's there and I'm here I've yet to figure out. Mind you, he's got mosquitoes.
We have just moved. Again. We have moved more or less exactly every 6 months for the past 2 years. These were not just house/apartment moves, but COUNTRY moves. For the 5 years prior to that, we lived out of suitcases, moving all the time. For the +- 13 years before that I lived in about 5 different places, but all in one city, Toronto. Before that, well, from time of birth I lived in too many places and too many countries to begin bothering to tell you about.
Suffice to say, it's a LOT. And for no specific reason other than the haphazard nature of life. So I can't blame my job, my husband's job or my parent's jobs. Just life. Things working out. Things not working out. Invitations. Dis-invitations. Spur of the moment decisions. Other people's spur of the moment decisions.
Now, I rather like being on the road. The time I've spent living out of a suitcase I don't regret. But as soon as furniture or large unwieldy objects come into the picture...ak.
We have moved into a very large house. The largest house I've ever lived in. It must be upwards of 250 square metres. This is partly because it has a full attic, which serves as one enormous room. But there are four bedrooms downstairs and two bathrooms. And just two of us.
We just moved from a 49 square metre cottage. The difference is VAST.
I can turn around in the bathroom! I don't hit my elbow on the wall! I have a choice of more than three places to sit !(before it was: bed or kitchen table or office). I can do my stretches and not have husband step over me trying to get to the other side of the room (house). We can cook together! We can invite people over! We can get lost! I'm getting fit just walking around.
There are some problems, of course there are. We are renting half-furnished. See below.
World's ugliest furniture
But... these are views from outside my office and our bedroom window ( apologies for the photos, I took them with my computer)
view from bedroom
View from my office
Behind the pond is a rushing gurgling river, which you can hear all the time...
Our living room
This is just a small corner of the living room... those armchairs come with a sofa the size of my previous office. They are also SO ugly, but strangely comfortable.
I don't know how long we'll be here, but we don't have any plans to move in the near future or even the far distant future. I do sometimes wonder what I'm doing in a cold northern semi functioning (in some ways) country, but I simply don't have the energy to consider a different plan. We tried hot and beautiful (south of France) and that didn't work. So. Maybe actually being in a house that we like will help.
We are even going to get our stuff from Toronto shipped. A whole apartment of stuff that's been in storage for over 7 years. I will have outgrown my clothes (or out coloured them or something), we will be able to replace some of the hideousness, and have some of our favourite things about us, like our VITAMIX :-)
That's planned for later this year, in the meantime we have SPACE. if not SUN. For HOT, I need to follow in my brother's footsteps and go to Brazil. Why he's there and I'm here I've yet to figure out. Mind you, he's got mosquitoes.
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No wonder you’re who you are, Sandra; with all your moves [MAYbe even more than mine, but I’m not conceding that yet. I am still shocked that the longest I’ve ever lived in my life in one city is in Miami! And the longest in a home! ACtually 9 years…it does have its advantages.
so I’m glad you’ve found a home you MIGHT settle in; and I’m envious about the view outside your window, and thankful you shared it! Cute vid!
Sandra I’m so glad you’ve found somewhere SPACIOUS to be. How wonderful! And the views are just gorgeous.. perfect for inspiring muses and silencing saboteurs. And even if it rains day after day, all the exercise you’ll get avoiding the ghastly rental furniture! I wish I had pics of the fabulously dire heavy black spanish stuff our tiny place was stuffed with, complete with formica table tops ;)
There is a box in my store room which came all the way from Switzerland 5 years ago and still has not been opened. Bern was my longest time anywhere, 10 years, though 4 houses.. as I grew up it was a move every 4 years or so too. Global gypsies we be :)
Enjoy this interlude, and your vitamix when it comes. Now that is exciting!!
You have reminded me of when we moved from a small cottage into this house which is about 370 sq meters. I felt like I had to get a passport to go from one part of the house to the other. The first time I vacuumed the great room floor it seemed I was having go cross-country.
Sounds exciting to be finally putting down roots. Garden. Can you have a garden?
Meenakshi..I am still shocked that the longest I’ve ever lived in my life in one city is in Miami!
hah hah.. I know just what you mean. I have the same thing - with Toronto. Why there?!
Lynx…no wonder I like you! fellow global gypsy...I can just imagine that horrible furniture..
Jw.. 370 square metres? I would definitely get lost! YES, we have a huge garden. Most of it is not really suitable for anything edible, but I can make ‘raised beds’ which I plan to do! That whole area you see in the pics is ‘ours’ :-)
I can simply not imagine moving so many times (although part of me is envious of your opportunities to live in so many places. we’ve been here for nigh on 25 years.) Anyway, congratulations to be in your new space. And I know you’ll find some furniture that you like soon. Love the view from your windows. By the way, understand totally that need for sun. Hope you get to visit Brazil!
unfortunately I could not view your pictures. I am happy you have some space though and hope you can stay put for awhile. I can’t imagine moving a lot. I moved a lot as a child, my father being in the navy. I have lived in the same house now since 1986. stuck here I think.
what a wondrous thoughtful blog about “space” and moving… as most of us know it is not the where it is the way we live in that space… i have not had my “own” space for a long time really… I have moved three times in the past three years… yet this is not my space… even though I make the best of it…sort of… yet my space is outside with the dogs and the camera, walking in nature, viewing the world as a photograph… a photograph that may or may not illuminate the soul, enlighten the mind, make the heart smile or sing…
Space is all around us…
I keep saying I wish to go to the warmth of the west but I get no further then South Jersey so far…
Make your space as loving and as blessed as you desire… for it is yours for as long as you choose to inhabit the energy where you are.